THE RIGHT WAY OF LIFE

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A lovely little girl was holding two apples with both hands.
Her mum came in and softly asked her little daughter with a smile; my sweetie, could you give your mum one of your two apples?
The girl looked up at her mum for some seconds, then she suddenly took a quick bite on one apple, and then quickly on the other.
The mum felt the smile on her face freeze. She tried hard not to reveal her disappointment.
Then the little girl handed one of her bitten apples to her mum,and said: mummy, here you are. This is the sweeter one.
No matter who you are, how experienced you are, and how knowledgeable you think you are, always delay judgement.
Give others the privilege to explain themselves. What you see may not be the reality. Never conclude for others.
Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.
Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money.
Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility.
Those who apologize first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.
Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend.
Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart.
Those who take out time to chat with you, it does not mean they are jobless or less busy, but they know the importance of keeping in touch.
One day, all of us will get separated from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything & nothing; the dreams that we had.
Days will pass by, months, years, until this contact becomes rare... One day our children will see our pictures and ask 'Who are these people?' And we will smile with invisible tears because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will say: thank you for making me smile for sometime in my life.

TEN POINTS ABOUT IGBO PEOPLE AND CULTURE

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Igbo people and culture
Where the Igbos migrated from has not been proved beyond reasonable doubt. The ancestry of the Igbos has bothered many people for a long time. Many historians, philosophers, sociologists, archaeologists and anthropologists have raised a lot of dust on this issue.
Igbo culture (Igbo: Omenala ndi Igbo) are the customs, practices and traditions of the Igbo people of southeastern Nigeria.

ART

Igbo Art is known for various types of masquerade, masks and outfits symbolising people animals or abstract conceptions.
Alusi, also known as Arusi or Arushi, are minor deities that are worshiped and served in Igbo mythology.

      YAM

The yam is very important to the Igbo as it is their staple crop. There are celebrations such as the New yam festival (Igbo: Iwaji) which are held for the harvesting of the yam.

      TRADITIONAL ATTIRE

Traditionally, the attire of the Igbo generally consisted of little clothing as the purpose of clothing then was to conceal private parts, although elders were fully clothed.

v   Kola-Nut -- Symbol of Hospitality

At any village function, the titled man or a village head is presented with kola-nuts, which play a very important social and ritual role in the Igbo culture.

       Igbo Marriages

Marriage in Igbo land is an arrangement which enables individuals (man/woman) to live together and cooperate in an orderly social life. A marriage in Igbo land or any African country goes beyond sexual union.
        IGBO BASICS RECIPEE
(ABACHA/JIPKU/NSISA/ACHI) or BIAFRAN SALAD
  • The ingredients consisted of four wrappings of slightly fermented oil beans locally called "Ugba" or Ukpaka.
  • A cigarette cup of fresh local salad fruit known as anara seeds
  • About two small bundles of local salad leaves "leaves of solanium family
  • Two cigarette cups of sliced and dehydrated cassava locally known as achi or abacha, or jikpu or nsisa, a pinch of potash
  • Four table-spoons of palm oil, salt to test, three table spoons full of water
  • Half a cigarette cup of dehydrated and powdered shrimp or lobsters, and a teaspoon of powdered pepper
  • Wash the local salad fruits and leaves thoroughly in luke-warm water containing a pitch of salt or few drops of milton, drain in a colander also wash the sliced dehydrated cassava achi and leaf in a colander to drain a get soft, slice the drained fruits and leaves to reasonable sizes, roast the oil bean wrappings in open fire for about five minutes, grind the pepper and potash to be mortar done, add desired level of water and oil to the mortar powdered products while stirring vigorously with the addition so as to produce a nice, smooth mixture of orange color stuff called ncha add salt to taste. Put the sliced cassava, sliced local salad leaves and fruits, roasted oil beans, and powdered shrimps to the ncha, mix thoroughly to get the finger licking, saliva-watering, anti-kwashiokor Biafran salad.
      IGBO TRADITIONAL CEREMONY AND CULTURE
Birth, marriage and burial are considered the three most important family events in most cultures, and Igboland is not an exception to that.

       Naming after market days

Newborn babies were sometimes named after the day of the week when born. This is no longer the fashion. Names such as Mgbeke (maiden [born] on the day of Eke), Mgborie (maiden [born] on the Orie day) are commonly seen among the Igbo people. For males, Mgbe is replaced by Nwa or "Okoro" (Igbo: Child [of]). Examples of this are Solomon Okoronkwo and Nwankwo Kanu, two popular footballers.

        IGBO MASKS AND MASQURADES

There are two basic types of masquerades, visible and invisible. The visible masquerades are meant for the public. They often are more entertaining. Masks used offer a visually appeal for their shapes and forms.

RELATIONSHIPS

Two criteria shape interpersonal relations: age and gender. Respect is given to males, and to older persons. Children are always required to offer the first greeting to their elders.
Social status is based on wealth, regardless of occupation. The Igbo distinguish between obgenye or mbi (the poor), dinkpa (the moderately prosperous), and nnukwu madu or ogaranya (the rich).

8 POINTS ON HOW TO REBUILD

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HOW TO REBUILD A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP

• Invest in (i.e. spend quality time) relationships with people who you believe are safe (especially if you already have them). Look to those who you see as spiritually mature.
• Give yourself time to heal.
• Learn the art of emotional intimacy in same sex relationships (i.e. non erotic relationships. Men are famous for having few to zero male friends; women can have problems here, too).
• Be aware of negative patterns you may have in picking others. Use your friends to hold you accountable to avoid entering similar relationships.
• Never date Out of feelings of obligation. ( instead it should be a “want to” or a “get to”).
• Develop realistic expectations of what a relationship can and cannot do for you.
• Consider professional help on this most important journey!
• Celebrate your relationship with the support of others!

 

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by 12:25
A man who was tired of life decided to commit suicide under a mango tree, the son quickly run to him n said Dad I just won 100million dollars, I promise u that ur funeral would be a big celebration.The dad said to him fool, untie me quickly n lets go n celebrate my resurrection...
HAPPY EASTER

internet

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Internet Safety Tips for Kids and Teens
1. Spend time having fun with your parents online and helping them understand technology!
2. Never post your personal information, such as a cell phone number, home number, home address, or your location on any social networking site or through mobile apps like Snapchat or Instagram.
3. Never meet in person with anyone you first “met” on the internet. If someone asks to meet you, tell your parents or guardian right away. Some people may not be who they say they are.
4. Check with your parents before you post pictures of yourself or others online. Do not post inappropriate pictures of anyone.
5. Never respond to mean or rude texts, messages, and e-mails. Delete any unwanted messages. You may need to delete friends who continuously bother you or post things that are not appropriate.
6. NEVER share your password with anyone, including your best friend. The only people who should know your password are your parents or guardian.
7. If you wouldn’t say something to another person’s face, don’t text it or post it online.
8. Do not download or install software or anything on your computer or cell phone before checking with your parents or guardian.
9. Use the privacy settings of social networking sites.
10. If anything makes you feel uncomfortable online, while gaming or when using your cell phone, talk with your parents or guardian right away.
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